As the days of yesterday, Still no feeling of sadness that haunts the recesses of the heart
Hamzah. The 29-year-old father was seen frequently depressed. Sadly Hamzah, not because
major problem, nor the economic problems of the family. However, because of his grief
one speaker raised the question as to follow the event Smart Parenting.
"How to know if 1-5 year old child loves people
master "? Yes, that's the question that widened the current burden of her mind. Although also
Hamza admitted if he was not a good father. Anger is a natural thing
occur. However, angry when seen by children aged 2 years is a matter which
harmful to her emotional development. And Hamza admitted it. From that day
he was determined to become a better father to his son.
From then on, every day Hamza home office in a hurry. Because only
one goal. How to get an answer from his son Ridwan! Playing and
mingle with older children is the right solution to get
word answer "Yes". That day Hamza bought a large ball. Larger than
Ridwan body. They played longer. Hamza willing to be a goalkeeper
pretending to fall when catching the ball. And it happened again and again until
Ridwan invite laughter. Until they tired to play. Hamza invited to sit Ridwan
briefly. Hamza mengambikan glass of drinking water will be drunk alone. Mind
Hamza, It's a good time to ask. "Son, Ridwan love the abi ga?" This time
Ridwan Hamza's face. Hamza awaits ... .. suddenly Ridwan said "Abby, come on
playing ball again! .... Hamza was silent, perhaps the question was asked when the atmosphere is not
he thought proper.
In the evening, Hamzah read the book "Islamic Akhlaq" to their children. Times
Hamza read this with patience and longer than usual. That night 9 books
read until the end. Until when his son looks sleepy, Hamza took the initiative
to wipe the back of Ridwan. When the sweep after sweep did, terbesit
keingginan to ask his son "Son, Ridwan same dear abi ka?" ...
Ridwan was silent, apparently Ridwan trigger sleep before asked. Hmm .... Let it be, perhaps he
tired of playing this afternoon. As she rubbed his back, watched his son's face.
Hamza said in her ears. "Son, forgive abi abi if it is not the father
good for you. Until you difficult to say the word "Yes". But let it be, abi will try
be a good father. "
The night passed without an answer that dream ....
After the morning prayer, her purse strewn! Ridwan was already awake when
Hamza to the mosque. Photo identification and splattered everywhere. Patiently
Hamza took it and fix it again. Hamzah said to her "Do not
ya abi open wallet, here are many important identification. Later if missing
how? "Ridwan nodding in agreement. "Okay! Let's first toss "said Hamza.
And Ridwan was lifted and opened his fingers to toss and smiled.
"Umm Ok, let's go" said Hamza. It was at 6:50.
uh, it turns out Ridwan not want to change clothes. His clothes are using that sleep does not want the replacement. Clothes

patterned car in front of the tractor with the pocket it looks shabby. But it still did not want to Ridwan
dressed. Even to tears when her clothes would be removed. For fear of too late to
office, then let Ridwan not shower and do not want to change clothes.
That afternoon, Hamza home is no longer in a hurry. After all, did not show faith Ridwan
utter the words "Yes" to him. So this time Hamza activity
as usual. Ridwan pick up at grandma's house who was wearing the same clothes
with clothes this morning. Said the grandmother "Ridwan ngak would change clothes, he jingkar (Crying
great) if her clothes would be removed "
That night Hamza did not want to play ball with his son. Hamza led
Ridwan to bed early. So sleep Ridwan with tilawah.Setelah diiringilah
falling asleep. Hamzah asked his wife to replace the shabby clothes because Ridwan
Hamzah's turn tomorrow morning to wash clothes.
After the morning prayer, Ridwan not wake up. Piles of clothes one by one
washed. Until arriving at the tractor Ridwan patterned clothes. Clothes are using that day. When
wash, Hamza find a 4 × 6 itself in your pocket Ridwan ... And that's what
make Ridwan smiled and said to myself "No usahlah you say" Yes "kid.
Abi already know the answer "... ...
Children Learn From His Life
If children live with criticism, he learns cursing
If children live with hostility he learns to fight
If children live with ridicule he learns inferiority
If children live with the insults he learns regret
If children live tolerance they learn patience
If children live encouragement he learns confidence
If children live praise he learns to appreciate
If children live the best treatment he learns justice
If children live a sense of security he learns confidence
If children live support he learns to like himself
If children live love and friendship he learns to find love in
life (law Dorothy nolie)
"Not including my people who do not respect the old and not
a little love, "said the Prophet.
Ibn Abbas r.a. say, that the Holy Prophet. said: "Teach, Make it easy
and do not persulit! Gembirakanlah and do not be afraid, afraid! If any one of you
anger should remain silent! "(Reported by Ahmad and Bukhari)
Holy Prophet said: 'Anyone who got the test or suffer
take care of her children, then he do good to them, then their children
would be prohibitive for him from the torment of hell. (Bukhari, Muslim, and At
Turmudzi).