"Hopefully this note can provide lessons for us that until Akhwat
seconds are not yet reunited with her soul mate "
Friday prayers had just finished fulfilled. Mr. Yunus as usual still in
mosque with several other fathers. Suddenly, just finished dhikr, Sir David
approached Mr. Yunus: Mr. Yunus then patted the shoulder shake hands. Yes, sir Jonah
and Mr. David had been friends since long since reunited in a single
recitation. "What is said Sir?", said Sir David
"Alhamdulillah good. Mr yourself how? ", Replied Mr Yunus
"Alhamdulillah .. (Pause). By the way, still alone aja nih Pak? "
Mr. David threw the question is often joke that during the presentation.
Mr. Yunus just smiled as usual when asked about it.
Ever since Mr. Yunus's wife passed away several years ago, Mr. Yunus undergo hariharinya
without a companion. He was already head 6 also seems to be wrong
a decision to not want to get married again. The three children who have been married
Mr Yunus made increasingly lonely. Yes, as a man, sometimes feeling
need a companion in old age, also experienced by Mr. Yunus.
Many friends around Mr. Yunus is suggested to get married again, including
Sir David.
***
1 Syawal 1430 H
"Hey, brothers,, Trisha wanted marriage 2011 ..", Mira, Sir David's daughter,
suddenly cried out in the living room during a family gathering a large Pak Daud. Spontaneous, brethren
others directly asked that question, Trisha, the youngest child of David Pak.
"Bener Sha?"
"Bener Trish ka?"
Trish just respond to those questions with a smile, saying:
"It's just a personal plan. GOD will not know the plan .. "
On the other hand, Aunt Jenny was silent, and smiled a pretty forced. Auntie
Winnie is Mr. David's sister who had not married at the age ahead
head 5.
Trisha caught the unpleasant tinge when seen face tante
Yeni.Tasya conscious and feel what Aunt Winnie feel: his nephew had
plan to be married, while she was??. Maybe that's what is on your mind
Aunt Jenny, Trisha thought.

Aunt Jenny was not married to the present, which perhaps should have been
time to have a child or even pet grandchild. But, yes that's a mate. Aunt Jenny can
practically have not found her soul mate today.
Is it because the problem of beauty? Ooohh,, of course not! Aunt Winnie pretty enough
with white skin. Is it because of his religion? Oooohh, make no mistake, aunt Jenny is
woman who was keeping qiyamullail. Is it because of his wealth? Ooohh, of course aunt
Yeni independent enough to support herself even without a steady job, which is important
fixed-income. Is it because of his descendants? Ooohh,, aunt Jenny is a descendant
respectable, the father of a headmaster. So,, what makes it up to
not currently married too?
Yes, that's the mystery partner. We will never know when they come from, and we will not
never know with whom we are destined. We can only look forward, trying, praying and continue to
improve.
***
As usual Friday, some fathers still dhikr in the mosque after prayer
Friday, including Mr. Yunus and Mr. David. Mr. Yunus approached Sir David who was
located at the corner of the mosque.
"Assalamu'alaikum. Mr. .. ", said Mr Yunus shaking hands with Sir David.
"Wa'alaikumusalam ..", said Sir David's warm.
Mr. Yunus her point: she wanted to marry again and want to try
acquainted with Sir David's sister, aunt Jenny.
Sir David and gladly accepted it and preach it to
sister, aunt Jenny. Aunt Jenny had said yes, this is of course highly anticipated
aunt Jenny.
The first meeting had been arranged by Sir David. Sir David was accompanied Pak Yunus
to visit the house of Sir David's parents, which is none other than the place
stay aunt Jenny. They talk and get acquainted more deeply.
Meeting after meeting was held. There was no way both of us, there's always that
accompanied, as ta'aruf in general. There are only 4 meetings and both sides
family parties also agreed, including children, Mr. Yunus. Finally khitbah any
established.
***
Sir David's large family had gathered since morning at Sir David's parents' house.
Today there will be no meeting of two families: the family and the family of Mr Yunus aunt Jenny.
On the sidelines of preparatory khitbah, Trish accompany aunt Jenny in her room and
intend to get an interesting story of this process. Process leading to marriage
a girl aged 40 with a widower aged 60's, truly unique story.

"How aunt feelings?", Asked Trisha to the point.
"Yaaaa,, not have thought aja. And you who've ngerencanain marriage, while
aunt do not have anything planned. But it was not spoken for now auntie .. ", replied
sumringah aunt Winnie.
"Yes, so deh kalo udah GOD plan. I also was just a personal plan. Gak tau
deh in the future how. Perhaps the same could be accelerated or slowed GOD
of the plan. ", Trish wiser in words.
"Yes, but not aunt already almost 50 years. But it was new emang current
GOD gave it mate. Do not know why Mr. Yunus same fit, feel dimudahin
very process, only 4 times meeting up. Pas meeting up 2 times, he is steady with an sms reply
choice. Pas met as children, aunt also do not feel afraid, ordinary aja. Yes, aunt
aja mah pray the same GOD, if indeed this is the best and then draw near
mudahkanlah, and if it is not the best for me, then put away nicely.
Alhamdulillah, the process was facilitated and aunt were steady heart. ", Long story aunt Winnie
so make Trish gasped.
"Hopefully yes smoothly Tan,, in the future ..", Trish strengthen aunt Winnie, while
getting into the family room because it has a lot of waiting.
***
After khitbah, large family day Aunt Winnie had gathered to discuss
a truly unique wedding reception this. Starting from making the invitations, committee
until the division of tasks. Yes, the wedding reception to be held not far different
young couples with a wedding reception in general.
***
The ceremony which was held a few days after Idul Adha so
solemn. Invite the orphans also feel the happiness of the bride and groom
at the wedding reception. And now, aunt Winnie prayer had been answered already; close the bachelor.
***
This story is inspired by the true story of my aunt. Yes, in a period of waiting to find
soul mate, not a word I heard from the lips blame fate, blame
GOD who seemed sided with him. In the period of waiting, he busy himself
with the worship of GOD and social activities in their environment. Until finally,
waiting for many years, decades old, has tested his patience, and he
even get a mate who GOD willing best according to GOD. That's the mystery partner.
We will never know when a mate is coming. Man can only plan. However,
GOD was the one who wills of all. It could be our soul mate comes into more
fast or even slower than our previous plan.
We also will never know with whom we are destined. Whether it's with people who
already close to us and those far away who have never even met each other. Or
even we are not reconcilable with our partner in this world, but in His heaven later.
Allahu Akbar!

My brother, rest assured that GOD has prepared the best scenario for
we're in trouble mate. No need to worry. Because GOD has been said in
Q.S An-Nahl: 72
"And Allah has made the mate-mate jenismu you from yourself, then
make the children and grandchildren for you from a mate-jodohmu. "
My brother, never the slightest hint that GOD is not fair because
until now has not been approached mate. Try introspection. Use the
wait a mate this by continuing to endeavor, to pray and keep busy to improve.
Do not we want a good match? As promised in HIS
Q.S An-Nuur: 26
"Women - women who are cruel to men - men are cruel and men - men who are vile
for women who are cruel. And women - good women are for men - good men,
and men - good men are to women - women who either (too). "
to my aunt:
"Barakallahu Laka Wa Baraka 'Alaika Jama'a Bainakuma Fi Wa Khair"
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