"Some Reflections story for us that a lot of silver lining if we want to study it"
My wedding day. The most historic day in the life. Then I should have
to be the happiest creature. But I feel compassion instead of blue.
Imagine. On this historic day none of the relatives who accompanied me to
the bride. Especially mothers. He was the most strongly opposed
perkawinanku.Masih mother's words I remember very well the other day
"So will you marry a black sack bundle 'it ... .?!?" Duh ... ..., my heart was
nervous to hear the greeting. The period of my future wife is called 'bundle of black sack'.
"You've got maybe Yanto pellets. Like it does the same period a black girl, fat
with his face totally unattractive and deformed legs. A few more years older
than you!! "the mother again.
"Enough Mom! Enough! Do not insult brutal mother. He's a creation of God.
What if the creator of his anger at the mother ...? "This time I had replied saying
mother with little emotion. Apparently the mother very offended to hear what I said.
"Oh .... apparently you're more than memillih her family. alright
Yanto. Please you are married but do not expect you'll get there in one of our
place at that time. And do not you bring her into this house! "
Degg!!
"Yanto .... Do not stare continued. Soon the prince arrived, "warning Ismail
interrupting my musings.
Immediately seek forgiveness, I say to myself.
"Thank God the prince has arrived. Get ready ... akhi, "once again gave Ismail
spirit to me.
"I thank illegitimate, her wedding Shalihah binti Mahmud deceased by mas
mating set of prayers in cash! "Thank God I speak fluent also aqad
marriage.
"Oh God this day thou allow me to reach half-dien.
Mudahkanlah me to reach others. "
In the rooms are very simple. On top of this wooden cot I was stunned lama.Memandangi
my wife being soluble in and shut down. After our long silence with each other,
eventually by reading basmalah inwardly kuberanikan myself to say hello.
"Assalamu'alaikum .... Quran recitation request will be checked when De '...? "
I asked, looking at his face, who had been hidden in the submission.

Before getting married, my wife was never asked for the first night down to ten for
I read the Koran every night memorizing one juz. And request that my decision to approve.
"Later in qiyamullail," replied my wife, still in the submission. Her
wrapped in a white veil, she hid deep. When I lifted his chin, he was like
want to reject. But when I give the hint that I'm her husband and is entitled to
doing so, he gave up.
Now I was stunned for long. True .. mom said that my wife's face 'not interesting'.
Flash of thought that emerged .... And soon I was away.
His eyes glazed eyes staring intently at the ball.
"Bang, I have said from the beginning ta'aruf, that physically I like this. If
Abang disappointed, I am ready and willing. But when the brother was not married to my regret,
I hope God gives many blessings to Abang. As
limpahkan God's blessing to his father Imam malik who sincerely accept
something he did not like his wife. I want to remind Abang be the word of God
Imam Malik's mother read to her husband on the first night of marriage
them, "...
And hang out with them (your wives) predictably worth (ahsan). Then when you
do not like them, (so be patient) because maybe you do not like
something, when God promised him a lot of good. "(Surah An-Nisa: 19)
Hearing my wife said, I look at her face full of tears lekatlekat.
I remembered the story of a husband who would marry a woman who has a disability it.
From a woman's uterus, the mother of Imam Malik, the great scholar of Islamic ummah that his name immortal
in history.
"Yes, Lord I married her because of you. Then derive a sense of love and compassion
love yours in my heart for him. So I can love and be loved
with all my heart that sincerely. "
Slowly I approach my wife. Then with vibrating, kurengkuh tubuhya in dekapku.
Meanwhile, my wife cried tergugu in the face that still leaves a lump of doubt.
"Do not force yourself to accept my sincere, Bang. Really ... I'm ready
accept whatever decision the worst, "he said again.
"No ... De '. It's early intention to marry you because God Abang. Already
intention was very round. Until Abang ignored when the whole family boycott
to not come this morning, "paparku clutching her hand tightly.
The night has risen to the top slowly. In verses lengangnya prayer
I spread on him.
"Robbi, can not deny that woman's beauty can bring love
for men. But has kutepis chose a beautiful wife for a way because I
want to earn your love. Robbi watch tonight will prove that

my true love will only kupasrahkan thee. Therefore, I pertemukanlah
with You in Jannah you! "
I inched toward the bed was very simple. Then I looked at faces
denan my wife's whole heart is sincere. Ah, .. now I really love him.
Why not? Is not it true Sholihah woman. He continues to uphold malammalamnya
with the length of his Munajat.
He always keeps His book memorization. And always carry shoum Sunnah
His Apostles.
"... And among humans there are people who worship tandingantandingan
besides Allah. They loved him as they love God.
As for those who believe, really, really love to God ... "(Surah al-
Baqarah: 165)
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O Allah, verily I was weak, strengthen me and I was despicable then
I honor and I'm poor so I kayakanlah O maha Compassionate Essence